last week of January 2010~already??!!

i have so much to update on, to blog about & stuff that's been happening & lingering on my mind for a while..but seeing as i have  to pack my bags (i am a VERY..VERY.. slow packer!) for the endau-rompin trip tomorow i guess i'll just list down my to-blog list for me to story2 when i get back..

1. my wonderful amazing trip to sabah ! meeting syg's family & lepakking with the future in laws was so relaxing..seriously (plus syg's dad talks much more to me now compared to my first visit! ouh happy!) & the beach..i love the beach!!!

2. i got my parking pass at PNB Darby Park! sronoknye! what a way to start off the new year! i drive to work now..bwk my baby jln2 every morning, menempuh jam sambil menyanyi2 in the car + dancing abit. parking for staff is RM31.50/month..murah tak?


3. mondays at pavvie..with my loves bubbies + fiona..sangat best!

4. promotion on alea's chocolate online biz! i loike! chocolates..!!!


5. the missing pizza mystery! ehhehehe..but, maybe im not gonna take the risk of telling this one..kang i'll be out of a job pulak :0


6. i had an ACCIDENT..and a very stupid one plak tu..and i got the next day off..mc..but just becoz i was shaken up..no physical injuries ..phewww


7. i have booked our official photog for the reception in KL, sangat happy, one thing to take off my to-do list (speaking of which i haven't finalized my checklist..bz gler ouh!)


8. warna theme for my reception pon dh ada..tuk nikah? hmmm..kna ada theme ke? tak sure but we will be wearing white/off-white/cream (kain to beli soon!)


and itula stakat ni that i can remember..better get off now..syg waiting to give me teka-tekis (aku tak penah jawab btul pon!)

Confused & Malas

penuh negativity tak my title...memang pon, ade sket emosi negative mengalir in my body this whole week..

do you know the feeling you have when you see an old friend/someone you know but not-so-close/the person that you recognize from school but just used to acknowledge each other with a smile or a nod of the head? (and the list goes on)

to make things short--> malas nak start a conversation...

well i sort of have that bad habit or is it a trait? entah...tapi along those lines lah..after uni years..the aween that used to love talking to strangers & striking up conversations with whoever i meet either on the street or the person sitting next to me on the bus..has totally decreased in the effort of putting a string of words together to even make a simple sentence..iaitu aku telah menjadi malas..malas and i have no explanation behind it..

sometimes i even turn the other direction when i see someone i recognize in front of me (hoping that they haven't seen me yet)..teruk kan? i know that its very much like me trying to avoid people & become so unsocial :D ..i guess im just trying to avoid the awkward small talk..


"oh , u buat apa skrg?"


"bila nak kahwin? oh, dah kawin ke? congrats! tak jemput pun!"


"u kerja katne skrg?"


"you look so different now"


and yada yada yada.....yes..its the small talk im not in the mood to go thru..very teruk habit...im trying to buang this..hahahah..


anyways on a brighter note (noting majies comment that byk sgt negativeness je kt my posts~hehe) , lunch hour tadi ktorg pegi Plaza GM, Chow Kit...eija ada ckp kat aku haritu she bought her door gifts here... and she told me to check out the place too..its a wholesale place so u can buy bundles of stuff for much cheaper prices...before pegi tu i googled it up..ada website ok..hahaha


--->> Plaza GM

me & majjies bought sexy dresses, if buy 3pcs & above satu dress priced at RM35! murah ok..as usual i took black..hahahah..and maj took the other two (1 black & the other purple~cantik!)..sori takde gmbr malas nak amek..nnt aku pkai baru aku amek ek..heheheheh..

so i looked around, but since i still have no idea what to give as my wedding favors..so masih blur lagi la..probably just give out souvenirs from Sabah..like kak aja did at her wedding :)

for brides-to-bees..if ada masa check out juga plaza gm ni ok ;) 

Pensiangan? I dont care..I dont like! (T_T)

aku masih di ofis tapi bukan membuat kerja..but just waiting for the traffic jam to go down..sket pon jadi lah...

Just got off the phone wif my Syg..so hes going for a site visit for four (4) freaking days...to..(read my title) PENSIANGAN..haiyah!!! as im not so good in geography i went and googled maps it up..& memang aku tngok pon tak suka la kan kt tngah2 pedalaman negeri Sabah tu..eeeeeeeee..dah dekat sempadan indonesia tuuuuuuuuuu

so what rite?? its not like i see him everyday , so what would it matter where he is?

HUUUU...IT SOOO MATTERS!

especially after he said that they have to camp over in the freaking hutan belukar, just to survey the land area there to see if its appropriate for housing & town development..without proper highway..no line? no phone signal!

TIDAKKKKKK (T_T)

wehhh..mulalah my ceramah aka bebel la kan...even tho im not officially working with the title of a Quantity Surveyor in my name card..i still think i remember what a QS's jobscope is..ni apa? apa my juru ukur bahan pujaan hati nak gi duduk kt hutan survey tanah segala? ko land surveyor ke? ko topographer ke? bleh ke ko amek sample tanah tu test2 & know if its sesuai utk dibangunkan ke tak?????? 

(maaf aku bkn berkasar bahasa, u guys know that we talk to each other like this rite? heheh..ko- aku , cam lagu aizat "kau aku" yang menang persembahan terbaik AJL aritu. ok interval merepek)

syg, u are a quantity surveyor! ok not a land surveyor, not an urban planner, not a geological engineer...huuuu...not fair , i hate the fact that i can't reach u by a press of my super sony ericsson k850i (dh tak brape super dh jatuh byk kali)~

oklaaaa..fine laaaa..pegila ke pensiangan tu..biarla aku kt kl ni sorg2..(hahahah..abaikan)

p/s: hey, take care out there..damnit i hate this!, blaja buat unggun api ok ;p

KL Reception Checklist

1) Theme: Light Grey + Blush Pink
2) Date + Time: 02.10.2010@noon till 4/5pm
3) Location: Booked + payed deposit
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1) Baju Sanding (Aween): Bridal Package
2) Baju Sanding (Faizal): Dah fitting. make sure jgn gemuk!!
3) Tudung Sanding
4) Veil: Bridal Package
5) Make-Up (Me & Syg jugak-sikit): MMA
6) Accessories: Bridal
7) Wedding Shoes (Aween) Pavvy
8) Wedding Shoes (Faizal) kasut nikah
9) Pelamin Dewan: Bridal Package
10) Alat Merenjis: Bridal Package
11) Pengapit + Baju (for bride) Same baju bridesmaid
12) Pengapit + Baju (for groom) Same baju groomsmen
13) Bridesmaids + Baju DONE! Jakel & Nagoya
14) Groomsmen + Baju DONE!
15) Hand Bouquet: Bridal package: light pink
16) Baju Mama + Wina DONE!
17) Baju Abah + the boys DONE! Grey satin from Jakel
18) PA System + DJ + technicians: with hall 
19) Deco meja pengantin: with caterer
20) Kerusi + Meja: with hall
21) Table Centrepiece: Ain
22) Hall Deco: catering
23) Kompang BOOKED
24) Penari Cilik/Remaja BOOKED
25) tentative of program: given to dira n all committee
26) Bungga Manggar karon & syg siapkn
27) Bunga Pahar Semua House
28) Kipas tuk pengantin + tempat letak tangan tu bridal
29) Door gifts
       - General: BOOKED!
       - Kids
       - VIP's
30) Guestbook Pojan
31) Projector + screen: (With Hall) BOOKED
32) Photog: Paid 30% Depo
33) Videographer: Paid Depo 30%
34) Deco behind pengantin meja makan: xde
35) Bubble guns: (Canceled)
36) Song List ain to burn & post
37) Emcee: found two gorjes people :)
38) Flower girls (Cancelled)
39) Video Montage: Jenal buat
40) Wedding Cards + Invites: Ain to design
41) Banner/bunting: ordered
42) Road Directions: ain settlekan, tinggal print je
43) Thank You tags: for vip only (wna buat)
44) My lovely guest singers (^_^): 2 confirmed singers
45) Catering: with hall
46) Gifts Table: dh mintak wif dewan
47) Rozet for family/penanggah: DONE!
48) Wedding Cake: Taste Invasion
49) Red Carpet: with hall
50) Orang baca Doa' abg alip
51) Hall Layout: dewan & catering dh inform me
52: Nikah montage: from videographer

SABAH Reception Checklist

Checklist yang ini mungkin tak sedetail yg kat kl, aku just list down things that I shall take part of helping plan + organize, yang lain I leave it to ur family ok syg?

1) Theme: Bajau Traditional
2) Date + Time: 30.10.10
3) Location: Kg Pengalat Besar, Papar, Sabah
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1) Baju Traditional Bajau (Faizal): baju baru! :)
2) Baju Traditional Bajau (Aween): baju baru! :) 
3) Tudung + Accessories
4) Shoes (Faizal + Aween)
5) Pelamin Bajau: DONE
6) Kuda :D
7) Catering: DONE
8) Khemah + table + chairs : Org Kampung syg
9) Door gifts BOOKED
10) Kad Jemputan + Invitees
11) tentative
12) Flight tikets for Aweens family: DONE
13) Book hotel rooms for Aweens family: DONE
14) Rent bus for Aweens family: DONE
15) Penari Traditional
16) PA System + Karok Set (i think ni mmg wajib)
17) Deco Bilik Pengantin
18) Deco Meja pengantin 
19) Family Meeting
20) Wedding Cake
21) Alat merenjis kot (aku still kna blaja bajau culture.haha)
22) Baju tuk fFIL + fadhli
23) baju tuk fMIL + puteri
24) Pengapit (Aween): DONE (cousin syg)
25) Pengapit (Faizal): DONE (Fadhli)
26) Payung + Kipas tuk pengantin
27) Photog DONE (paid 38% deposit)
28) Videographer : DONE (paid 50% deposit)
29) Make up for Aween

The other important stuff

just to make sure i keep track of these..i type them down..

1. Kursus Kahwin (Aween): DONE

2. Kursus Kahwin (Faizal): DONE 27 & 28 March

3. HIV Test: July

4. Borang & Kebenaran Kahwin: July

5. Whiteroom photoshoot: DONE (ZaifieZainal & Artful Brains)
6. Pre-wed photoshoot: DONE June 2010 (by Jnal)

7. Honeymoon (s): No. 1 : booked

8. Facials (Aween & Faizal): second date: 27.9.10

9. Slimming (Aween): payed: 18.9.10

10. Spa Perkahwinan: FREE from Bridal :) 26.9.10

11. Manicure + Pedicure at aunty pah's spa

12. list of P-I-C (Aween!) done! syg dh print
13. Gold dust facial (naik seri):to KIV with kak shaz, sgt interesting! 
14.Bride&Groom T-shirts: End April fr Q&A
15. Meet up with caterer discuss menu & deco
16. Meet with hall technician ask on projector & PA systm
17. Buy d-i-y stuffs June
18. Script for MCdira buat
19. Meet up with Suria from NJS Events :) DONE. april
20. give song list to jenal 
21. inai
22. contact lens

Persalinan Baju- the Checklist

this tukar2 pakai baju2 persalinan ni tak sure im gonna include it or not becoz nak tgnok kat mana aku boleh slot in..hehe..but just for the sake of it..buat checklist gak..if tak nak nnt aku delete saja :)

1) Date + Time: o1.10.10 - after nikah/Friday prayers (insyaAllah)
2) Location: di rumah saja
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1) Baju-baju Persalinan: 4 change of clothes
- Sanggul Lintang, Melaka (mama nye special request)
-Traditional Perak
- Kimono Jepun
- Minangkabau N. Sembilan
2) Person to help me change the clothes: Mak Andam/Wna/bridesmaids
3) Make up: Bridal
4) Pelamin Nikah + Stool: Bridal Package 
5) Photog: Paid 30% Depo
6) Accessories: Bridal
7) Shoes: pakai kasut nikah je

Malam Berinai Besar Checklist

1) Theme: 'sesi family mingling + raptai' @ sebnarnye xde tema pon :D
2) Date + Time: 01.10.10 @ lepas Maghrib/Isya'
3) Location: di rumah saje
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1) Baju Berinai Jawa Moden (Aween & Fazial): Bridal to find 
2) Tudung: hitam jln tar
3) Accessories: Bridal
4) Shoes/heels (Aween): Pakai kasut nikah
5) Shoes/Sandals (Faizal): Pakai sandal bridal
6) Make-Up: MMA
7) Pelamin Nikah + Stool (add on stool je): Bridal Package

8) Alat Merenjis: Bridal Package

9) Bunga Pahar (bg kat sedara mara yg merenjis)
10) Catering Masak reramai je :)
11) Khemah (same as for Nikah) NSJ Events & NUR :)
12) Photog: Paid Depo 30%
13) Pulut Kuning booked
14) Kompang BOOKED
15) PA System N/A
16) Videographer: Paid Depo 30%

Hantarans

haven't really finalized the list, hehe, kna mintak pendapat mama first..mcm materialistic sikit rite? guess its because the hantarans for our engagement were majority food based, so kali ni bagi barangan pula..heh

yey..as of June 2010, ktorg dah stuju tuk kurangkan 9 balas 11 dulang to 7 balas 9 :)

* dulangs : COLLECT END OF BULAN POSE

From Faizal to Azwin:

Theme Colour: Baby Blue + White

1. Sireh Junjung/Tepak Sireh: September

2. Mas Kahwin + Jewelry batal air smyg+Hantaran (Bank draft/cheque) bekas dah sewa

3. Telekung + Tasbih: Telekung from Bukit Tinggi, Indo

4. Shoes + Handbag: buy in August

5. Perfume buy in August

6. Cake : September

7. Laptop + Chocs: to buy in August (PC Fair)

From Azwin to Faizal:

Theme Colour: Dark Brown + Pink + Cream

1. Sireh Junjung: September

2. Wedding Ring + bunga rampai: Ring from Jewel Store

3. Tafsir Al-Quran + Sejadah: Semua House 

4. Belt + Wallet: August

5. Perfume + Facial/Health Products: August

6. Books: August

7. Fruits + Chocs: September

8. Camcorder: to buy in August (PC Fair) 

9. Cake: September (secret recipe)

Nikah Checklist

1) Theme: White + cream + off-white
2) Date + Time: 01.10.10 @ Morning (insyaAllah)
3) Location: di rumah saja
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1) Baju Nikah (Aween): DONE! by dzulldeclassique (final pick up April)
2) Baju Melayu (Faizal): DONE! by KAS tailor (April)
3) Tudung Nikah
4) Veil OMG i got my long & studded veil! love it! just tinggal nk tmbh sabah pearls :)
5) Samping + Songkok
6) Make-Up: MMA
7) Accessories (cekak spider/small tiara/brooch for songkok) bridal
8) Nikah Shoes (Aween) jusco a day b4
9) Nikah Shoes (perluke ek?) + Socks (Faizal) sogo
10) Pelamin Nikah + Bantal Nikah: Bridal Package
11) Hantarans (perlu ada entry tersendiri)
12) Khemah + tables, chairs + deco NSJ Events & NUR :)
13) Catering Cik Syukor, Kg Baru
14) Guest List + No. of invitees
15) Tok Kadi/Wali/Saksi
16) Guest Favours just tinggal beli foods stuff
17) Photog: Paid Deposit 30%
18) Videographer: Paid Deposit 30%
19) Hand Bouquet: buat sendri wif c-nah
20) Inai (Aween+ Faizal) sendri di rumah masing2
21) Deco bilik pengantin: hampir, skettt je lagi
22) Meja tuk sign time nikah: Kaye