Those two more steps...

Im very very extremely happy that me & syg dapat bubut the most important part (to me la it is the most important) of our wedding prep iaitu kami telah berjaya mendapat kebenaran berkahwin..


hehe, yeah..its seems like a big deal eventho remeh je, tapi puas hati bler ktorg bubut (sabah word for 'kejar') & learn everything sendiri, me being anak sulung, him being anak lelaki sulung..learning is fun..so let's go thru (for future brides & my frens) what you need to get kebenaran nikah for:-


1) Lelaki from Sabah
2) Perempuan from Selangor (wlaupun x lahir kt Selangor.hehe, x perlu)


Kebenaran Berkahwin Lelaki~Sabah


Borang tuk kebenaran berkahwin kena beli kt Majlis Ugama Islam Sabah (MUIS), RM5.00 if x silap. disebabkan yang melalui procedure ni is my syg, jadi i googled up and found this blog entry: Click Here (tumpang link ye Pn. Azlina) ^_^


Kat entry ni ada cter secara detail the parts of the borang yang kena isi, because syg je yang bermastautin kat Sabah, so dia amek satu borang je.


Ada jugak ramai yang suruh ktorg mintak kebenaran berkahwin lelaki kat Selangor je, isi borang bermastautin tu, tapi bler fikir2, that would actually more leceh & time consuming, because syg will have to get verification and all that stuff when he only comes to kl once a month..


Dalam borang ni dia dah lengkap tempat tuk pengesahan bujang, also saringan hiv tu pon chop sume kat borang yang sama, lagi senang dari Selangor, xyah byk borang2, satu je


Ok, yang leceh sket tuk syg is dia kna mintak dua saksi dia (his boss-En. Razali & Karon our bff) pegi jabatan Pendaftaran to get pengesahan copy ic dorg, syg nye pon kna pengesahan jugak..so itu je la leceh sket nak pegi sana.


After all of that, syg pegi submit his borang kat Pendaftar Nikah MUIS and got the borang back the next day. Alhamdulillah ;)

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Kebenaran Berkahwin Perempuan~Selangor


..sambungannye terus menerus, syg dapat je Kebenaran Berkahwin tu je, dia terus pegi pejabat pos, and sent the documents to me, via 'Express abx', yang ni betul2 dijamin sampai esok, so the next day on 22 July, I got the documents before noon at the office :) eksaited buat kja sambil senyum, satu hari je..hehe


then it was my turn to bubut, like my previous entry, i had gone for my hiv test, so all the supporting documents based on the list from JAIS were all ready to go, yang tinggal, nak tau apa procedure seterusnya & who was the Pen. Pendaftar Nikah (PPN) for my area. Pegi PAID Gombak and tanye abg counter tu and dia just tunjuk nama & alamat PPN tu kat dinding & i had to salin semua :(


My cadangan: better dorg buat copies of that info utk menyenangkan org ramai x perlu salin semua info kat situ or end up tertinggal or silap salin no tepon kan..haish..effective sket la kan, sket je (kata2 dari org yg malas nak salin)


dah lepas tu, calling la PPN kami tu, set a date to meet up & sign the documents on the 26 July (nak kna bawak Wali, 2 saksi borang, and me), dia takde interview la macam Johor and im so happy everything went smoothly, se-smooth2 nye, mcm xcaya pon ada, sungguh lancar bab nak settle kan kebenaran ni asalkan kte dah sediakan all the supporting documents awal.


Like me, anak sulung kna bagi a copy of surat akuan nikah my parents, seb baik bab simpan2 docs ni sume mama mmg pakar, so i brought with me photostat copies & also the originals, oh sijil kursus kawin pon dorg amek the original, nak chop kt PAID.


our PPN sungguh cool, muda lagi, walaupun belum lagi dapat kebenaran official from PAID, dia bagi kat aku buku appointment diaand suh tulis kat date aku tu, note & address & fon no. hehe, nak je aku lukis smily face kat situ lagi tp takut kna sound pulak. 


Heran jugak aku the first appointment dia untuk bulan october..suka la, book time dia skali, so if ada org lain nak , kna take the slot after mine. jadinye kami book tuk 01.10.10, pada pukul 10pagi (amek cuti ye korg~u know who)


borak nye borak, the PPN x mintak2 pon kebenaran bernikah tuk syg, jadi heran la aku, so i asked, yg kebenaran bernikah seblah laki nak x? hehe, tepuk dahi kadi tu, a'ah saya pun lupa plak yang tu..hehehe (bridezilla ada ke yang x ingat?)


so dgn lafaz Bismillah ktorg pon sign la docs tu (Aween sambil tersenyum cover2, hati happy sgt ok syg!), then last sterp, kna pegi antr kt PAID tuk dapat kebenaran last tu...


before ktorg kuar office, PPN ckp la bout the new rules & procedure akad nikah kat Selangor (effective 2010~xtau plak bulan bila), dia cakap nnt kna ubah ye nilai mas kahwin ni, bukan pasal below rm300, tapi pasal skrg ni kena sebut dalam lafaz akad tu nilai 

mas kahwin + nilai hantaran yg dah dijanjikan !

serious..x tipu, and my muka happy berubah la kan sket..i dont like random things that kacau plan.haha (over as usual), so kiranye, contoh k

mas kahwin (RM300) + nilai hantaran (RM10,000)= RM10,300

maka kena sebut:

Aku ___terima nikahnya ____ dengan mas kahwinnya 10,300 ringgit tunai/hutang

yep, tak tipu..and no, me tak suka, nak tau napa? pasal penat je aku plan (memang aku je plan sume, mama stuju je) mas kawin tu nombor ikut date bday aku (hahah) and nilai hantaran tu ikut date nikah kitorg (heheh), jadinye bila tambah dua2 nilai tu, means jadi nombor yang xde makne plak , jumbled up numbers je..haiyoooooo. terima je la kan

then my saksi ada gak tanye, macamane nak differentiate yang bahagian mas kawin hak isteri tu, dgn belanja hantaran, bukan nanti timbul konfusion kat situ? 

PPN itu cakap, sebnarnye hantaran tu mmg patutnye diserah kepada pihak perempuan, jadinye, pengantin perempuan pun kna la redha duit tu utk perbelanjaan kawin pihaknye, weh , memang konfiusing & aku pun malas nak elaborate pasal x terrel bab2 ni, yang aku tau, sian syg nak sebut nombor jumlah tu, heee

and it doesnt mean that kna bawak la plak cash rm10k tu time nikah, dia kata yg mas kawin asal tu bawakla time nikah, yang nilai hantaran tu letak dlm bentuk cheque ke pe, teknikal matter je tu (tok kadi berkata sambil tergelak sikit) hehe, quote unquote k

soooooo..akhirnye kami dapat kebenaran nikah from PAID the next day 27 July and borang tu dah selamat dalam simpanan PPN (i made copies of every single thing! chewah, precaution mane tau kan), tu sebnarnye boleh diserahkan kat PPN at least 7 days before tarikh nikah, tp better bagi je terus, nnt lupa plak.. so then...boleh lah slash3..

PROSEDUR
1. HADIR KURSUS PRA PERKAHWINAN. aween amek kt uia time 2007
2. DAPATKAN BORANG 2C DAN 2D DI JAIS / PAID. download je kt internet, free
3. LENGKAPKAN BORANG DAN LAMPIRKAN DOKUMEN SOKONGAN.
4. DAPATKAN PENGESAHAN DARI PPN.
5. DAPATKAN KEBENARAN BERKAHWIN DARI PAID.
6. SERAHKAN KEBENARAN BERKAHWIN KEPADA PPN.
7. AKAD NIKAH DIJALANKAN. 01.10.10, lepas raya! yay! insyaAllah
8. AMBIL SURAT PERAKUAN NIKAH DI JAIS / PAID


and that leaves us..2 steps to go.., puasa dah habis ganti?..erk

Kisah Semalam

before i forget and my excitedness hilang and the cter jadi basi i shall..smalam was a really happy day ;) reasons being:-


1) settle HIV Test (aween nye, syg dah settle last week)


sedangkan the test results are valid for 6 months, why choose to do it less than 3 months before? jawapannye: saje, senang settle sekaligus dengan borang2 nikah sekali. 


anyhuu, after finding out on where our house is located (kitorg part Keramat area that is really on the boundary between Kuala Lumpur & Selangor), so kira in the end im under Selangor


last skali tuk confirmation yang sebenar, check where you pay your house (rumah yang sebenar la, bukan rumah sewa yang korg duk saje) assessment rate , dan kami terbukti bayar kepada MPAJ so, Selangor lah jawabnye.


Thus, off to Klinik Kesihatan AU2, heaven gile blakang umah je. dah kol last week, xle buat appointment through phone. u have to go there and make the appointment, nak buat appointment anytime pon boleh, but the HIV test is only carried out on:-


Klinik Kesihatan AU2 Taman Keramat
Mondays-Fridays
2pm - 5pm
10 persons per day (need prior booking-alah tulis nama dalam buku latihan je)
payment RM1


i went on monday morning (kuar ofis sat) to make the appointment, lah stakat tulis nama & tulis no. IC je, org lain pon boleh buatkan.sheesh. i booked the next day..org No. 1 (2pm)


tuesday lunch hour, im out of the office at 1pm, zoom off straight to Jusco AU2, i was nervous ok, i needed donuts (alasan). sekor2 beli donuts 24 biji (orang order), duduk makan satu je then i was off to wait at the Klinik (nak be the first one to bleed).


Tepat kul 2pm org dah stat beratur nk amek number, i followed. Then tngok kt counter amek darah tu ada nurse I went out of the line and asked her where to take my number, she gave me the 'Borang Ujian Saringan HIV Pra-Perkahwinan' and told me to fill it up then only go to the counter. dengan bangganye borang aku ada tag 'HIV No. 1' hahah


dah fill up the form, submit kat counter, byr RM1, not long after that the abg amek darah panggil nama. He was wearing the penutup hidung mask, and i was actually sedang mengigil nervousness kat situ (nerves ok sorg2 pegi jumpa doctor) so apa dia cakap aku x brape dgr.


Abg amek darah: hmmm hmmm hmm (ok he was really saying something but aku x dgr)


Aku: ah apa dia?


Abg amek darah: hmmm hmmm hmm


Aku: emm, ape dia?


Abg amek darah: saye tanye, tau tak knapa awak kat sini? (it still sounded muffled but thats what i could spell out)


Aku: ohh tau (dalam hati jawab 'duhh, nak amek test hiv la kan')


Abg amek darah: Awak kat sini utk ujian saringan hiv ye. wajib kena amek utk kawin*mesti stress pasal aku ni cam separa pekak* (i was nerves k plus he was wearing that mask!)


Aku: ok (sangat x in the mood tuk borak~ especially mata aku dh terlekat dekat peralatan cucuk jari tu)


Abg amek darah: nikah nanti kat mana? (baik gler nak buat a conversation tuk kurangkn nerbes, im just like, get it over with boleh?)


Aku: kat umah (nampak sgt x aku ni x peramah today?)
Abg amek darah: ooo, ok saya nak amek satu titis je, if perlu lagi saya amek beberapa titis lagi

then he goes & cucuk n picit2 my jari 4-5 kali (hello kata setitis je)

Abg amek darah: ok pegi duduk sana dulu, nanti saya panggil lagi skali

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Aku duk tunggu nama dipanggil, sambil termenung, ada couple seblah aku excited2 nak amek darah jugak, bergelak2 & usik2 (ok mmg jeles tapi control). whatever..hahah

then kena panggil..dua kali gak (i said i was termenung kan~confirm abg ni rasa aku pekak)

Abg amek darah: ok,  nanti bagi dkt pejabat agama kertas kuning ni, saya nasihat, buat copy tuk simpanan sendiri. sbenarnye maklumat ujian ni sulit, tapi teknikally, kalau saya bagi awk borang ni, kira okla tu (sambil tangan dia atas borang aku tu~ terlintas jap kt hati, omg dia x nak bagi ke borang aku tu?)

Abg amek darah: oknah borang awk (legaaaaaaaa k)

Aku: terima kasih sangat2 :) haha

all of that settle in 20 minits je..heheheh, perlu ke tulis sume tu? perlu pasal nak bagi syg bace. haha

2) i won something from Qis nye Contest :)

sungguh happy & happy. i called eija when i was on the way out of the Klinik, she said 'Awin i got good news for you!' im like 'yeke, apa dia', nanti la ko balik aku btau' ..suspensss gila & mmg x terfikir pasal contest tu nye result! hahaha

http://itstimeforqanda.blogspot.com/2010/07/as-promised.html

its great to win something! and the consolation prize is as good as the t-shirts!! pillow cases printed with King & Queen (bakal digunakan kat bilik pengantin if sempat) heheh

dah menang hadiah kena ada thank you speech sket kan, thank you JENAL my besfren for taking the pics for us, QIS for having this contest, ALIN for choosing the pic to send for the contest (siap dgn penerangan detail setiap gambar~i love!) & FAIZAL for making me laugh..hahah

3) Uda & Dara free tics

will update nanti, panjang sket review ni.heh

menyelit di kala tersepit

ok, memang lamaaa gilaaa aku x de entry baru, macam dah merajuk jadi blogger je gamaknye..hehe, mungkin la merajuk...sikit..


well, ape updates tentang hidup aku yang semakin bertambah busy gila ditambah dengan level motivation aku tuk buat kerja semakin menurun (adela sebab musabab dia)...arghhh..nak aku cakap lagi?? im trying my hardest not to be stressed pasal kerja ni..not worth the tegang2 urat in my brain ok...


fuhhh..DEEP BREATH..hehe, ok now lets talk about fun stuff, like my wedding prep (fuyooo, fun lagi ni, tunggu lagi sebulan! mau jadi nenek bridezilla) hahaha..end of last month syg came into kl, and we got a lot of stuff settled :) and the list goes:-


1. Pre-wed photoshoot? (mungkin la kan itu namanye..amek gambar tuk simpanan ktorg je)


Day: Saturday
Weather: Cerah & Panas (excellent for our photos)
Model: Aween & Faizal (duh)
Location: IIUM (di mana cinta berputik), KAED & sekitarnye
Official Photog: Naim Zainal (commercial ok nama ko! hehe, jnal la sebnarnye, my bestfren/bridesman)
Assistant/Choreographer: Wna
Outfit: Jeans & Bride & Groom t-shirts ordered from Qis (sila click on her link k)


hehe, memang x penah ada dalam bajet pun nk hire a pro pre-wed photog, so when jnal agreed to take our pics that weekend, aku happy gler! (ok credits to lens kaye yg ada kt jnal jugak) haha. usha la pics from camera yg wina pegang:-

brekfast kt blakang uia, x senang org nak bace paper!!

ni sume shot testing2 by wina ye, time ni jnal belum dtg lagi

cam-whoring sisters

hehe, yang, ni wina yg buat k, aku x bsalah

photog in action, dgn model yang kaku, 

aku jela yg kaku, pjg terrel posing

this was just before ktorg terserempak wif Mdm Mai & her geng conference

HAHAH..malu plus kantoi k (jgn risau mdm, ur name is already on the invites list)

2) Collected our Nikah door gifts

Straight after our photo session (& lepas melepek kejap wif jnal & fami), we rushed straight off to PJ, janji nak jumpa Zaila kat LRT universiti pukul 2pm, aku terpaksa menunda beberapa kali, & to make matters even dumber! ktorg mmg tersilap jalan masuk highway mana tah..HAHAHAHHA..kata je dulu budak Matrix PJ, wtf!..sian gler zaila had to wait for me lama gila, so sorry my dear (T_T).. fyi, Zaila is a b2b jugak, and she has lots of cool stuff you can make as door gifts/prezzies for any occasion..check her out k, for her choc blog go to my chocolicious k, Zaila bagi me 2 free testers lagi..sedap k, i especially like the milk choc one :)

3) Jumpa kak fida for our Reception door gifts

Sejurus lepas amek door gift from Zaila, we went to Cheras to meet up with kak fida pulak..hehe, if korg kenal aku, korg boleh agakla apa yang aku akan bagi tuk door gift nanti..my favourite food, heheh, lepas dah taste, tunjuk kak fida our design & confirm order..we went happily back home to get ready for the pizza hut dinner for hakim's bday. phew!

ok selit sket gmbr bday hakim (mama put on hold makan2 ni nak tunggu 'abg faizal' dtg k :D

si gedik

urgh tudung ni melekap plak, i look so fat.eee

4) Misi mencari barang hantaran + other stuff

Yesss..ini misi hari Ahad (oh lupa ckp, syg came for the weekend only, so memang kejar masa gila2)..pagi2 ktorg dah ada kat Pasar Minggu Kg Baru, makan nasi lemak (gemuk) then off we were to Jalan TAR, focusing only on Semua House & Plaza City One (if pegi tmpat lain compem x sempat nk kejar flite syg that evening)

Stuff yang dapat dibeli:-

i) Tafsir Al-Quran (it came with a choice of mini sofa/kotak silver/kotak baldu) nnt dh transfer gmbr i post k, oh dapat tasbih free

ii) Sejadah + tasbih

iii) stuff tuk my konon-diy project (bunga dip & flowers for my pomander ball)

iv) ribbons to ikat my nikah door gift

v) VEIL. omg, yg ni mmg over bajet, tp xtau knapa i still dont rasa menyesal..heee, tq yang! long & studded just like i wanted, tinggal nk jahit pearls je sket2 (aku nak g beli kt pasar filipin nex week)

vi) Cincin nikah syg, batu zirconium

vii) Sampin nikah tuk syg, ok ktorg beli dua sbb x sure better warna cream or silver, hah, x pe guna tuk future

viii) we finally decided on a theme for our hantarans..haha, i give syg=brown + pink, syg give me= baby blue+white..hahaha, pelik ke eh, lantak ah malas nk piker lagi

5) Fitting Baju kat Bridal

-this was after syg dah balik to Sabah, me mama & wina pegi check kat bridal on my baju,  i think its ok, just decided i want a shorter veil & am gonna buy my shoes sendri (ye bazir kan sdgkn dia dh bagi kasut skali), haih...

-make up, dapat deal dgn aunty bridal tu, my 3 makeups will be traded to mama & wina (tuk reception) & 1 make up for my salin2 baju :D hehe

-my nikah, berinai n sanding make up will be done by Kak Awin, dah bayar depo & i got special price..hee, yay!

6) Usha Dewan to plan layout

me & wina did this just yesterday..hehe, terkejar la amek gmbr segala, becoz ada org pelamin nk dtg pasang for the next day's event..heee..so ukuran x dpt nk amek but i got a sketch..(minda suda brainstorming dah ni)~ this is my first time ever jejak kaki kat dewan ni since i booked it last year..gilo x gilo?

7) Borang Nikah?

-syg in the progress of getting his ready, saksi2 dia kna g jabatan pendaftaran k tuk verify their citizenship, ni mmg practice sume ke sabah/sarawak je eh? heh, hopefully dpt settle by nex week & i can bring back the docs to kl by hand :) ~slambe hiv test pon x amek lagi..errr

8) Kad Kahwin

my syg ness Ain Choi dah siapkan my kad kawin oh em gees me happy gila x terkata! hehehe, biarpun we're going for the simple modern look but i so love it, becoz totally from our own kepale otak..hehehe..tq sygku Ain & Wna & Me (hhahahah, boleh blah org bg credit kat diri sendri ni kannn?), skrg tngah survey kedai printing to get the best price :)

9) Cincin Kawin Aween

Arghh, mmg x guna betul aween ni, pegi Habib nye sale patotnye usha gelang tuk batal air smayang nye event..tapi..xde yang menarik perhatian, jadi saje2 la tngok diamond rind bling2..and then ..ahh, jumpa yang sungguh berkenan dia hati & skali keluarla credit card & wallah..mmg aku beli kan! heheh, xpe i dont mind not getting the gelang, i dont even like wearing jewellry (ok i dont even wear my cincin tunang, pastu gedik nk beli cincin nikah konon)..but, if syg nak bagi jugak, aku terima je..HAHAH..harga cincin pon dah way below our bajet so im not that menyesal :D

ok..stakat ni aje, gambar byk missing ni..hee, will post soon (my definition of soon is berminggu/berbulan) hahah

Suraya & Suaidy : the perfect love story

(soedaydah syg jgn marah k i tempek a pic of u ni..comelness!!)

> suraya
> soedaydah
> susu
> the bestfriend im so grateful to have found in uni
> the girl that has all those 'kawan satu sem' guy friends which i usually don't approve of :D
> suraya yang suka pakai baju/tudung tak matching but look gorgeous non the less
> soeday minah yang boleh buat bese & layan je mana2 budak laki yang interested dgn dia (even the weirdos & psychos)
> suraya yang tak nak kerja QS end up she's working in the biggest QS consultancy in Msia (heheh)
> the beauty in our studio but alas also the forgetful one (bagi hadiah birthday 3 months after haha)
> one of the G's in our 3G (kaye, aween, suraya)
> the adik of her family, 
> the sayang to her suaidy..

is married!!!

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nak tau tak...dorg ni jodohnye sungguh kuat..hehe..like seriously..the couple that boleh jadi couple contoh..tak kira dekat ke jauh ke..i am so kagum by how they always have luck on their side, time suaidy kena National Service for 2 years kat Singapore, memang kagum lah how they kept their relationship going strong (see i learn from the best).

Ada satu time tu we had a studio trip/site visit to Johor Bahru, and exactly on that weekend was suraya & suaidy's 4th year Anniversary (su correct me if im wrong). Hehe, so ktorg lepak kt Stulang malam tu wif my cousin  skali & tunggu dydy dtg dengan penuh machonye naik scrambler from Singapore..boleh tak cantik gila timing kan?


hehe, and that soedaydah got a diamond ring that nite ;) sweet gila that nite lepak at Danga Bay, Haida & Suaidy were singing medley lagu2 lama kumpulan Exists (yang aku serious xle follow along, x pnah dengar pon! hahah) Just to show how much Suaidy is Suraya, versi lelaki..heheh.

Then there was the surprise bday party for suraya that was done rite after we had organized the pre-grad dinner in 2006. Kak Jaja, Fashran & Me tolong contact2 dydy to come surprise suraya on her bday!! (time tu dydy still NS kt Singapore)..hehe, the surprise part was fun heheh..


ok mmg kalo nk go thru memory lane, it will be neverending story la kan..yang penting..over the uni years where we actually grew up together..skipping classes (hahah), merayap, makan, study & buat slip sort last minute, ermm, makan lagi, gossip, tngok movie (we watched brokeback sesame kan? geli gila!), bunking @ kayes, covering up for each other (nakal2 time)..heeeee, suraya ...we have shared so much stories & experiences (plus secrets :D) 


apsal aku xleh nak link from ur blog..huu, so i will quote jeh ur words "aween dismisses my pre-conceived idea of what a typical CBN-er is....hahaha kene jugak selit pasal tu....dier la teman aku gossip,bounce off ideas,makan,dan bermacam2 lagi...dan aku sgt suke yg she is with someone that she had been wanting (lusting!) for 3 years....which proves kita akan dpt apa yg kita nak kalau hati kite luhur mencintai...waheh!!!" unquote. THAT is how well she knows me ;)


and the moment i knew you were getting married (eventho it was like the nite after u got engaged!) hati aku berbunga-bunga happy sangat!!!!!!!  ~rasa macam dah long overdue pon ada, heheh *ingat tak time final year ko cakap, i nak kawin 10.10.10, don't take my date k!* memang ko skip 5 months ahead kan..heeeee, Alhamdulillah..word cant express how happy i am for the both of you..

gambar cam whore kte wif half of my face je.haha (we look young huh?)

It's a Happily Ever After..versi gila2 Suraya & Suaidy. lets look at the gorjesness..or bak kata Naya (suraya's big sister).. 

IT IS SOOOO GORJ!!

si cantik manis

cantik kan, luluh la hati2 peminat dia becoz shes taken! hahaha 

i seriously LOVE this pic by kak jaja (suraya & tgn Naya)

sue u tau i duk tngok dari tepi tangga leh tngok muka ur dad 

i rasa nak menitis air mata tau takkk!!! T_T

(dia lepaskan jugak perempuan simpanan BSN ni kawin kan .hehe)

and their married :) I LOVE this shot too 

(pics sume credit kat kak jaja tersayangku itu k)

PUAN Suraya..cantik ya amat & i love you so much!

dydy's reception in KL

last minit party crashers..ahahah

su, ingat x ko pnah ckp ni kat ur blog , and i quote "..i senyum mcm kerang busuk thinking abt that very special leap we would all take in life,sooner or later.....kan kan..."

heheh..now ur the kerang busuk!! 

i love u darling! Dydy is the best guy to take care of u, duina akhirat InsyaAllah :)